How tidy or messy was your house after having baby?

I had my first baby 3 weeks ago &I am not feeling well as i had a very deficult labour and delivery. My husband is very supportive making meals & looking after baby whenever possible, but he is busy and stressed with work & cant do much housework, i am grateful that he cooks for me otherwise i would be starving. My mother in law is staying with us for 2 months, but she is 70 years old & cant do much apart from holding baby and telling me what to do with my OWN baby. The result is a very messy and dirty flat & it's making me very stressed. When i say messy, i mean it. Clothes are everywhere, my husband was looking for his jacket this morning& could not find it! we have not hoovered for the last 4 weeks!! & i am worried my baby will be affected by dust. bathroom is terrible!!the whole flat is getting on my nerves but i cant clean it myself as i am still in pain, i cant ask my husband to do it because he is doing his BEST & every day he goes to bed exhausted